Space to Talk About Sex

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I offer psychosexual therapy at reduced rates while I complete my clinical hours. I’m a student member of the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT), and my practice is supervised by a COSRT-accredited psychosexual supervisor.

Imagine sex feeling easier: less pressure, more curiosity, and more room for pleasure and closeness in ways that feel right for you.

For many people, this can feel far away. You might be noticing changes in desire, difficulty with arousal or orgasm, pain, or a loss of confidence. Often, it’s not that these things don’t matter, but that they feel too vulnerable to say out loud. Over time, this can lead to avoidance, distance, or worry that something is wrong.

With support and willingness, things can begin to shift.

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What I Can Help With

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Desire and arousal
Your desire has changed, and you’re not sure why. Maybe you’ve lost interest and miss it. Maybe you want more than your partner does, and it’s starting to feel like rejection. Either way, it probably shows up in how you talk to each other, or in the conversations you’ve stopped having.

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Orgasm
Sex stops being relaxing when you’re worried about getting there. Reaching orgasm or ejaculating can feel out of reach, and the more you think about it, the harder it gets. The aim is for sex to stop feeling like a test.

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Erections and ejaculation
Your body isn’t doing what you expect, and it’s knocking your confidence. Trouble getting or keeping an erection, or ejaculating sooner or later than you’d like, is very common. It can also make you avoid sex altogether.

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Sexual pain
If sex hurts, it’s worth taking seriously. This might be vaginal pain (vaginismus, dyspareunia, vulvodynia) or genital and pelvic pain (penile, testicular or pelvic floor). Pain makes the body tense up and pull away, and that can become a cycle.

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Confidence and self-esteem
Somewhere along the way, sex became something you feel self-conscious about. Body image, past trauma and medical treatment, including cancer, can all change how you feel in your body and with a partner.

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How I Work

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I’m direct, warm and unhurried. You don’t need the right words, and I’ll help you find them. We start by slowing down and working out what’s going on for you, in your body and in your relationships.

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Fees

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While I complete my clinical hours, I offer psychosexual therapy at reduced rates:

• Individual sessions: £45 (qualified psychosexual rate: £65)

• Couples sessions: £60 (qualified psychosexual rate: £95)​

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Your Next Step1

​If you’d like to talk about whether this might be right for you, please get in touch using the form below.

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